Shalom,
Please begin by reading Eph 1:13-14.
The Holy Spirit has been given to us as a pledge. Just like an engagement ring is given in pledge of getting married, we as the bride of Christ receive the Holy Spirit from our Lord Jesus. The Spirit is given with a promise of full redemption to come and full acceptance into citizenship in heaven. According to our English dictionary a pledge is either a formal promise to do something or something given as security to guarantee the fulfillment of an obligation. If we remain faithful and true to our Lord, he's obligated to fulfill his promise.
Verse 13 says we're "marked in Christ with a seal." Ownership demands an investment, and Yahweh has made that investment in our lives. His investment is the presence of the Holy Spirit. We don't look at marriage as a matter of ownership, but we must consider it when we think about our relationship with our Father in heaven. We do have a parallel in 1 Cor 7:4 where it tells us the husband's and wife's bodies belong to their spouse. It's not that either has bought the other, but that we're sold out to being with our marriage partner. Jesus purchases us with his blood when we seek salvation, and then invests the Holy Spirit in us to seal the deal.
In the first century people signed letters by placing their official seal on them. It was simply a bit of wax that was placed on the document and the writer would then place his signet in it to make an impression. It's where we get the word signature from. By pressing his ring into the soft wax, the writer proved and verified the letter was authentic.
The Holy Spirit is Yahweh's seal on us, his mark, the thing that verifies we're truly born again and part of his family. He sets us apart from the world and marks us for our protection from evil spiritual forces. The Holy Spirit brings us security in this fallen world. When a couple gets engaged there's usually a sense of security which builds within the two people. They're no longer wondering if they should ask or whether the other will accept, they're now planning a wedding and a life together.
When Yahweh comes into our lives we have something exciting to look forward to. We have eternal life in the Kingdom of Heaven. When we arrive we'll have the marriage supper of the Lamb of God to prepared for us. This will be the most amazing wedding reception in the history of mankind. All the saints of our Lord God Almighty will be seated together with their Savior enjoying the richness of his table. Our preparation is ongoing as we walk in this world. Eph 5:27 shows us what the end product is supposed to look and be like. "To present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless."
We can know we're going to enjoy that great feast because of the deposit of the Holy Spirit placed in our hearts. If we're walking with our Lord, daily spending time with him in prayer and his Word, we can know with certainty that the Holy Spirit's presence is within us. When we deny our own selfish desires and give our Lord proper "face-time," we gain confidence in his promise. When we deny him any intimate contact, how can we expect him to marry us at his return?
In verse 14 we see that the Holy Spirit "is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance." This deposit guarantee was a common first century practice. The word meant a pledge to purchase property, a down payment. And when they gave down payments they were committing to buying the property, not just putting it on hold to consider the deal further. The act of giving a down payment was thought of as the beginning of the process of purchase, not just so the property would be held while the buyer considered other purchases.
Yahweh has invested part of himself into every Christian's life. Jesus shed his blood and died for us, and now the Holy Spirit abides in us. This investment is expected to produce results. Jesus said in John 16:13, "When he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own, he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come." We're expected to pay attention to what the Spirit is speaking to us, and he's speaking to all of us on a daily basis. And based on what he's speaking to us, our Lord expects obedience and faithfulness.
It's such a simple idea. Yahweh wants to speak to his people. The Body of Christ is made up of people who are all filled with the Holy Spirit, thus they have the presence and power of God Almighty residing in their lives. The presence of the Holy Spirit inside the heart of all believers is our direct link to Heaven. The Spirit wil guide us into truth, helping us avoid the lies of the devil and the deceptions of this world. The Holy Spirit wants to use us to bring necessary and essential encouragement to one another. Yahweh's guarantee is the Holy Spirit in us, abiding and speaking the will of the Father.
When we get engaged to Jesus by asking for him to take away our sins and cleanse us, we're also asking for him to lead and guide us for the rest of our earthly lives. This is a great and marvelous privilege. People who don't have Jesus as their Savior have to rely on very poor substitutes for Yahweh's prophetic Word. They're stuck with their finite minds, their five senses, and their worldly knowledge. Christians have a direct connection with Yahweh right inside their very being. How great is that?
After we get engaged there are some things we need to do to maintain our intimate relationship with our Father in Heaven. If we want to experience the direct guidance of the Holy Spirit we must:
1) Desire to be led by the Holy Spirit. If we desire to be led, Yahweh certainly wants to lead us. Desire is our biggest issue. People who refuse to be led, or don't choose to give it much thought, seldom realize how much the Spirit wants to help them. People who are true seekers of Yahweh's wisdom will receive the help they ask for. There are many choices we have to make in life and they'll be much easier when our Lord is allowed to help. Big or small issues doesn't matter, trusting our Lord does.
Sometimes Yahweh leads us through open doors. Sometimes he takes us around obstacles. Sometimes he confronts us with a closed door. Sometimes he nurtures us through a difficult situation. The key question is: What is the Spirit saying? When we acknowledge our Creator in our daily lives we'll be given the right course of action every time. When we obediently follow those directions even when we don't exactly appreciate what we're being told to do, we put our desire to follow our Lord on display for all to see and be blessed by.
2) Listen. Rev 2:7, 2:11, 2:17, 2:29. 3:6, 3:13, and 3:22 all say, "He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says." It's extremely important for us to listen to the Holy Spirit as he speaks to us. Think about it. It's important enough for our Lord to say this same thing to all seven of the churches he's sending messages to through John. Why? Because it's possible for us to have ears and not listen. It's not about the physical act of hearing. It's about actually paying attention to what's being said.
We can all look back at mistakes we've made in the past and give thanks to Yahweh for his grace in redeeming us from our bad choices. We all have "if only I'd prayed first" failures we can remember. We all need to learn this little prayer: "Lord, let me be sensitive to your voice. Let me have a hearing ear." We all get deaf to Yahweh's voice from time to time. The only way to overcome our weakness is to work at listening, to make the effort to hear what the Spirit's saying to us on a regular basis.
3) Ask specifically. James 1:5 says, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God." The Lord of all Creation wants to give us some of his heavenly wisdom. He'll gladly share his understanding and knowledge with us, if we just ask. Be mindful of asking with a right heart and intention or he may ignore your request. Of course, just a couple of chapters later James also shares with us, "You do not have, because you do not ask God." Yahweh doesn't resent us asking for things we need, especially wisdom.
But in general we need to be more specific in our prayers and requests. Generic prayers for others or healing or whatever usually means we're being lazy or we're really not invested in seeking solid answers for these prayers. Be as specific as you can in praying for the burden or desire Yahweh has placed in your heart. Ask him for big things. Ask him for little things. Even ask him for the in-between things. And if what we're asking for was truly placed in our hearts by the Holy Spirit, that's a prayer that will definitely be answered.
If you're a born again Christian you're wearing a divine and supernatural engagement ring. What do the ladies who get engagement rings do with them? They show them off, of course. Show off your engagement ring. Let people know about the great God who loves you so much. Let the demonic world know that you're stamped and sealed as a child of Yahweh. They can already see the supernatural seal, but they need to be convinced that we're serious about acting in accordance with the indwelling Spirit of God.
Blessings & Peace, Mike