Shalom,
Please begin by reading John 16:22-28.
I believe that many Christians have never been taught how to pray properly. They have no understanding of what Yahweh expects of us in our prayers, and struggle with spending the necessary and appropriate amount of time in their prayers. Something as basic as how to pray is very often neglected as a subject in our Sunday Schools and Bible studies. Could you help a new Christian learn how to pray?
Prayer isn't about overcoming our Father's reluctance, it's about laying hold of his willingness. Too many people take the Lord's Prayer too lightly. First, it probably should be called the Disciple's prayer because it's teaching us how to pray. Second, it's something that should be used throughout the week, not just during our worship services. Not that we recite it regularly, but that we let it guide the way we pray. When we say, "Your will be done" we need to realize that we're asking our Lord and Master to truly be the God we believe him to be. We're asking the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit to do what they want instead of what we want.
We need prayer because without Yahweh's influence and activity we can't do anything that's truly worthwhile. Without the Creator we're nothing. He's everything of value within us. The Holy Spirit within us is the source of our strength, wisdom, and abilities. The only way for us to be truly successful is to listen to and obey his counsel and guidance. And the best way to do that is through our prayer life.
The disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray and he began with "Our Father." The "our" reminds us that we're never fully alone in our prayers. This speaks directly to our need for corporate prayer. We need to pray together because that's how Jesus taught his disciples to pray. "Father" is there because we're all part of one big family. We're knit together as brothers and sisters by our heavenly Father. We belong together and must treat one another with love. We're not allowed to reject one of our family members just because we don't agree with how they approach or understand our Father.
We pray this way because Immanuel, God with us, told us this is the way we're supposed to pray. Yahweh intruded on our world in a spectacularly weird and peculiar manner. He became human and dwelt with us. We should realize that if we love and serve him we'll be just as odd to this world. And if we pray as we're directed to by Jesus, we'll definitely be odd to the people of this world. In fact, don't pray this prayer of you don't want to stand out as odd.
Being a Christian isn't something that comes to us naturally. We're strangers to our Father's way until we receive Jesus as our Savior. Then and only then can we pray the way Jesus taught us to: "Our Father." Maybe one of the reasons it's called the Lord's Prayer is because it's not a way for us to get our desires and wants. This prayer is for bending our desires and wants toward what Yahweh wants.
Notice that this prayer has a definite place in mind, an address - Heaven. We need to be reminded of this, to know it deep down in our hearts. Even though Yahweh lives above us and is higher than we can reach, he tells us he's real and he's made himself approachable. If Jesus is no more than a helpful moral example, or a wise teacher of ethics, then why pray at all? It makes a great deal of difference whether or not Yahweh hears us and acts in our behalf. Otherwise, our prayers are merely autosuggestion and self-therapy, not spiritual warfare.
And we say "Hallowed be your name." The God we pray to has a name. The name he gave us to speak and use is Yahweh. He has other names and titles throughout the Bible based on experiences people had with him. But he shared his name with us and told us to use it to bless one another (Num 6:24-27). Not to know his name and how hallowed/holy it is hinders our prayers. Not to know how to worship him because of his holiness is to live in conflict with what he's graciously taught us about approaching him.
The Psalms teach us the grand and glorious worship of Yahweh the Almighty God. Praises are lifted up and sung with enthusiasm. Instruments are played with vigor. All creation is called on to sing joyous praise to their Maker. This is to be a daily reminder that we're not on our own and that we're Yahweh's sheep. We don't belong to ourselves, but to the one who created us. The Lord's Prayer teaches us the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are absolutely worthy of our praise.
Then we say "Your Kingdom come." To say this is to be willing to become part of a rather weird gathering of truly strange people. The people who come to Yahweh are often the ones this world regards as outsiders. Jesus was scolded for hanging out with sinners and tax collectors. In the KJV 1 Pet 2:9 states, "ye are a peculiar people, that ye should show forth the praises of God." If we truly love and worship and serve the Living God, we're peculiar and strange to the people of this world. Which group do you fit into: Yahweh's Kingdom people or the sinful world system?
Then we pray for Yahweh's will to be done on this earth. In praying for his will to be done "on earth as it is in heaven," we're attempting to learn what our Father wants from and for us. As we pray this we should receive a vision of who he truly is and what he's already doing in our midst. This is all about submission to his Lordship. Are we willing to set aside our agendas to work with our Lord and Master for the purpose of expanding his Kingdom?
This phrase means we're seeking for our Father's desire not our own. Actually, praying this should cause us to forget the lessons this world taught us. It should help us overcome our bent toward satisfying our personal desires. We should get caught up in what Yahweh is actively doing in our world to reach everyone with the Gospel. To pray "your will be done" is to beg to have our lives caught up in a project greater than the import of our individual lives. We need to be like Jesus, praying not my will but yours be done.
Then we come to the part of the prayer that requires real boldness. Give us. Forgive us. Don't test us. Deliver us. We ask because we can do nothing without Yahweh and we're nothing without his presence in our lives.
What about this "daily bread?" Our bread isn't ours to hoard. Our bread belongs to our brothers and sisters. Bread is our Father's gift to us which we often pervert by our selfishness. To pray "give us our daily bread" should be cause to radically reexamine ourselves, to acknowledge the claim that our Lord has placed on us. He provides the bread to sustain and nurture us. He provides the bread so we can help others in need. He provides!
To reach out in forgiveness we need to be forgiven first. It also means I'm not the sole author of my life story. Actually my life is in someone else's hands. It's our sinful desire to be in control of our own lives that leads to "trespasses." Jesus taught us to seek reconciliation with the only one who can offer us a full pardon. To get the real forgiveness which brings us supernatural peace, we must be willing to forgive the ones who hurt and offend us. Every time we pray the Lord's Prayer we either condemn or pardon our sin. If we hold unforgivness in our hearts, we can't be forgiven ourselves. Beware the danger of unforgivness.
Paul's writings teach us about the spiritual powers and authorities we face. Jesus taught us to pray for deliverance from them. In praying that Yahweh will keep us from temptation we're asking for help against the powers fighting to overthrow Yahweh's Kingdom. Evil is large, cosmic, organized, subtle, and very real. We're not just talking about personal faults and prevailing sins, but about "principalities and powers."
Many times these powers masquerade as freedoms. The demonic deceivers will try to get us to to deny Yahweh's boundaries and limits by telling us these freedoms have been won through great battles. Other times they try to get us to accept them as necessities that are part of our human makeup, that God knew we had these desires and won't punish us for indulging ourselves. But Yahweh clearly speaks to us of right living, and that we must have self-control.
In praying for our Father to deliver us we acknowledge that he's greater than any of his foes. Evil is a threatening power, but also a defeated one. Though the battle continues to rage, we know who's already won the war. But we need Yahweh's help to resist the ongoing evil. In our human weakness, we seek the hand of our Savior in deliverance.
The Kingdom, the power, and the glory: three very large words are piled on at the end of this powerful prayer. The prayer ends in a shout of praise to the Almighty and Holy God of Glory. Any army knows the importance of having the right sort of music to inspire their troops. These words should stir our hearts because they give us a glorious vision of our Supreme Commander, Yahweh the Most High God.
But what do we mean when we say these words? These words are dangerous. The world loves to corrupt these words and use them for themselves. Earthly kings build their kingdoms and defend them with these words. And these powers were what Satan tempted Jesus to use wrongly in the wilderness. The devil continues to deceive and tempt mankind with the idea that they can control these powers for themselves. These powers are only for our benefit when their strength rests in Yahweh's hands, not ours.
And we say "now and forever." The Kingdom of Yahweh is here, but not in its fullness yet. Yahweh's Kingdom is now, but only as a foretaste of the glory that's to come. Yahweh isn't finished with us or this world yet. We're on the way to his perfection, but we haven't arrived at that destination yet. When we say "Kingdom Now" we don't mean taking dominion over the whole world, but working for the day when Jesus returns and sets everything in proper order.
In teaching us to pray, Jesus is trying to make us more truthful and more faithful. Jesus wants to make us his disciples, true followers of the Anointed One, the Messiah. In praying, our lives are being transformed from our natural inclinations to sin toward an intimacy with our heavenly Father. We're becoming like Jesus in holiness, obedience, and forgiveness - the things we're told to ask for in our prayers.
When we truly pray this prayer, we find our little lives caught up in the great drama of Yahweh's redemptive plan for a lost world. It sweeps us up into a great adventure much more significant than our lives can ever be without our Maker. Let your life be embodied in this prayer. This is what Jesus was trying to teach his disciples. This is what it means to to receive the gift of prayer.
Jesus gave us this prayer because we need it. Let's use it wisely and pray it boldly. But remember: Be careful, you just might get what you ask for. John 16:24, "Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete."
Blessings & Peace, Mike